Life Is Not Broken: Life is Becoming - ARUNDHATI KULKARNI
- Dr. Vineet Gera
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read

The journey of life is rarely a straight line. For many, it is a series of unexpected turns, steep climbs, and quiet valleys that challenge our definitions of success, happiness, and even our own strength. In her poignant new book, Life Is Not Broken: Life is Becoming, author Arundhati Kulkarni offers a profound shift in perspective for anyone navigating the complexities of an unplanned path.
From Brokenness to Becoming
The title itself serves as a powerful mantra. We often view struggles, setbacks, or "deviations" from the norm as signs that life is fractured or that we have somehow failed. Kulkarni gently corrects this narrative. She argues that even when life feels fragmented, it is not "broken"—it is "becoming."
This distinction is vital. "Becoming" implies movement, growth, and evolution. It suggests that our struggles are not dead ends, but rather the very material from which a stronger, more compassionate version of ourselves is being forged. Through her heartfelt storytelling, the author illustrates how uncertainty can become a space for profound grace.
The Resilience of Motherhood
At the heart of the book is Kulkarni’s lived reality as a parent. Motherhood, particularly when caring for a child with unique needs, requires a specific kind of "quiet courage." The book delves into:
The Weight of Expectation: Dealing with the gap between the life we imagined and the life we are living.
The Power of Faith: How spiritual grounding or a belief in a larger purpose can act as an anchor during turbulent times.
Practical Insights: Blending emotional reflections with the day-to-day realities of navigating a challenging journey.
While the lens is often that of a mother, the lessons are universal. Any reader facing their own "unpredictable journey" will find a mirror in these pages.
A Companion for the Unexpected
Life Is Not Broken is structured as a gentle guide for parents, women, and seekers of hope. It does not offer easy answers or hollow platitudes. Instead, it offers companionship. Kulkarni’s writing acknowledges the difficulty of the struggle while simultaneously pointing toward the light that exists within it.
The book explores the idea that love and resilience are not just emotions, but practices. They are the choices we make when the path is smooth and, more importantly, when it is rocky. By noticing the "moments of quiet courage" in her own life, the author invites readers to recognize the strength within their own stories.
Redefining the Journey
For those who feel they are constantly battling against the tide, this book is a reminder to stop fighting the drift and start trusting the process of transformation. It encourages us to look at our lives not as projects to be "fixed," but as stories that are continually unfolding.
Arundhati Kulkarni has given us a work that is both deeply personal and widely applicable. Life Is Not Broken: Life is Becoming is a necessary read for anyone who needs a reminder that their current struggle is not the end of their story—it is simply the next stage of who they are meant to be.



